Hello again, everyone, Lara here!

It’s been a long journey since I first wrote about this topic, and in that time, I’ve gained a deeper understanding of what it truly means to share your companion doll experience with the people in your life. The world is slowly becoming more open to diverse relationships, but that doesn’t mean the conversation is always easy.

Whether you’re considering telling friends, family, or even just people close to you who might notice a change in your life, the decision to talk about your companion doll is deeply personal. There’s no universal approach, but through experience and hearing from others in the community, I’ve learned a few key things that may help you navigate this journey with more confidence and clarity.

Why Tell Anyone At All?

Before jumping into how to tell people, it’s important to ask yourself: why do I want to?

Some people never feel the need to tell anyone, and that’s completely valid. Your relationship with your companion doll is personal, and you’re not obligated to explain it to anyone.

But for many, a companion doll is more than just an object—it’s a meaningful, emotionally fulfilling presence in their life. Keeping that hidden can feel isolating, especially if it’s influencing lifestyle changes, new hobbies, or daily routines. The desire to share is natural.
However, the right reason to tell someone isn’t about proving anything or seeking approval. It should be about allowing yourself to be authentic in a way that enhances your personal freedom and happiness.

Understanding the Common Reactions

Even as awareness grows, misconceptions still exist, and reactions will vary. However, one of the biggest things I’ve learned is that most people’s responses aren’t as extreme as we fear.

Possible Reactions You Might Encounter

Supportive & Curious: Some people will surprise you. They’ll listen, ask questions, and try to understand—even if they don’t fully “get it.”
Indifferent or Playful: Some might shrug it off, joke about it, or not make it a big deal at all.

Skeptical but Open-Minded: Many start with hesitation but, over time, come to accept and even respect your decision.
Judgmental or Dismissive: Unfortunately, some won’t be open to understanding. That’s okay—their opinion doesn’t define you.
By anticipating these possibilities, you can mentally prepare. The goal isn’t to control how someone reacts—it’s to present yourself with confidence, no matter their opinion.

How to Approach the Conversation

1. Choose Your Timing Wisely:
Find a moment when the person is relaxed and receptive. A casual, non-confrontational setting is best.

2. Tailor Your Approach:
Different people respond to different approaches. Some might need humor, while others appreciate a serious, direct explanation. You don’t have to explain everything—sometimes a simple, confident statement is better than over-explaining.

3. Address the Stigma Up Front:
One of the biggest hurdles is the assumption that companion dolls are purely physical. If that’s not the case for you, make it clear.
Talk about the emotional, therapeutic, or even creative aspects of your experience. If your doll has helped you heal from trauma, develop new skills (photography, writing, storytelling), or simply provided meaningful companionship, let them see that side of it.

4. Give People Time to Process:
Not everyone will understand right away, and that’s okay. Let them react, absorb the information, and ask questions when they’re ready.

Handling Negative Reactions

What if someone reacts badly?

First, remember this: their reaction is about them, not you.
Some people struggle with anything outside the norm. That doesn’t mean you are wrong—it just means they are uncomfortable. If someone refuses to respect your choices, it may be necessary to set boundaries. You’re not obligated to justify yourself to someone who refuses to listen.

The people who truly love you will eventually focus on what makes you happy, even if they don’t understand it.

The Unexpected Benefits of Being Open

While it’s true that telling people carries some risk, it also brings unexpected rewards.
You might find that someone you feared would judge you actually becomes supportive.
You may inspire someone else who was afraid to share their own unconventional relationship.
You’ll likely feel lighter—carrying a secret can be exhausting, and living openly can be freeing.

For me personally, being open has led to more acceptance than expected. Some people were skeptical at first, but as they saw how much joy and creativity I brought into my companion’s life, they softened their stance. Some even admitted they were impressed by how much effort, care, and passion went into our relationship.

You don’t have to convince everyone—sometimes just being yourself is enough to shift perspectives.

Do It For You:

At the end of the day, sharing your companion doll journey is about your own comfort and well-being. If it makes your life better to share, then share. If you’re happier keeping it private, that’s just as valid.
But if you do choose to tell people, do it with confidence. The more secure you are, the more likely others are to follow your lead.
You’re not alone. There are people who understand, a community that supports you, and a life that’s yours to live your way.

Thanks for reading, and as always, best wishes to everyone on their own journey.

~ Lara